Unearned Privileges
Having been born into a wealthy family:
- I was never looked down upon by others
- I was never set in the “majority” poverty stature of my race
- It was never assumed that I knew Spanish, so no one ever approached me speaking it
- I always had the medical attention I needed
- I never had old clothes or shoes
- I was always invited and included with the ‘white’ kids
- I attended highly recognized schools and never had to worry about expenses, even when attending college
- I was never bullied or targeted by others
- I was never starred at by others
- I was never followed or watched by store workers as I shopped
- I was able to get all the things I ever needed and wanted growing up
- I was always insured
- I was given a lot of the things most people of my race usually would have to work for
- I never have to work while in school
- I never have to worry about money because I know my parents will take care of me
I feel we all have a responsibility to give up unearned
privileges that benefit us to have a more equal society here in America. Even
though it may not be our fault that we come into this world with these
privileges. For example, being born white, or wealthy or even male these are
things out of our control that none of us can predict. I feel we, Americans,
are so used to these privileges it would be hard to give these everyday things
up. I never noticed how privileged I was compared to other people just because
of my families social class. Like Peggy McIntosh stated, “[we] are carefully
taught not to recognize [these] privileges” so they have become somewhat of a
norm for each of us and when the norms of a person are stripped from them it
becomes hard for those persons to deal with or handle their day to day lives.
Now I’m not saying that we shouldn’t give these privileges up, in fact I’m stating
the opposite. I believe everyone no matter what gender, race, affiliation or
religion we are or come from, it is best that we all start with the same
privileges and in order for this to happen we all have to give a little; Even
if it hurts us.
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